第24周

第24周

3月8日- 3月14日　焦虑的一周

BB的湿疹还是用药好，停药就立即反复。下个礼拜看医生，希望能给点切实可行，治本的方法。

妈妈的p继续加重，已经遍布全身。经过２个星期的等待，终于可以在１４号开始光疗。

第 25周

第25周

3月15日- 3月21日

3.16, BB第一次自己翻身!

向左翻哦~~ 下午妈妈和BB在playmat上玩, 眼看着小朋友两手抓着两只脚丫向左边悠过去, 妈妈的第一个反应 --- 宝宝翻身的历史时刻怕就是现在了! 还没有来得及去抓相机, BB就已经骨碌一下翻过去, 嗨嗨呀呀的好容易把压在身子下面的左胳膊给抽出来, 可爱至极!!! :)

这一周, BB俯卧的时候常发出高亢的吼叫--真的是在吼在叫, 而且总是把脸给憋得通红. 也不知道这么高频率的大声吼叫BB的嗓子疼不疼. 哎, 不愧是虎年出生的小家伙!

玩笑归玩笑, 这个新动作书上也查不到, 爸爸妈妈完全摸不着头脑. 下个礼拜一是CB的6个月检查, 爸爸妈妈要好好咨询下健康师.

18日, BB第4次在VUmc检查湿疹的状况. 终于碰到了比较靠铺的医生, 耐心的检查宝宝的情况, 不厌其烦的回答妈妈的问题. 这两个礼拜以来, 湿疹仍旧是时好时坏的状态. 西医的治疗方法也就是这样了. 考虑还是要和湿疹长期作战的话, 不能总是依靠激素类药品, 所以还是广泛查阅了下中医治疗湿疹的方子. 其中这个金银花的方子主要是控制湿疹用, 全天然没有副作用, 很多妈妈们尝试了都表示蛮有效果. 所以叫外婆准备的金银花已经邮寄上路了.

How has your baby changed your relationship? --a mother's answer quoted from babycenter

这个妈妈的回复, 道出了很多妈妈自己的心声, 所以引下来.

Make no mistake; having a child in a relationship will be one of the hardest things any two people will have to deal with. For the women, their whole world is turned upside down and inside out while her body goes through changes - some of which will be permanent (like stretch marks and changes in body shape). Emotionally it is a rollercoaster as well. All the hormones of pregnancy and after a baby is born have a marked impact on even a mother's thinking.

Where the woman may have been very devoted as just a partner before baby, she will also be devoted to caring for a child. There will be less time for couples, less time for the father. It can be extremely difficult; fathers thinking their partners no longer love them as much, mothers feeling the same with changes to body etc, add in sleep deprivation, mix in the feelings of being completely helpless at times when baby cries and can not be consoled.

If the baby gets sick, then things can (will) be even more stressful. The reality is that two people create a little wonder, a little marvel that they bring into the world, often at times blind. Blind to exactly how they will feel and the changes that will happen to their lives after the little bundle of joy arrives. Sex between couples varies with pregnancy and after the birth - for some there are no real changes. For most there are marked changes with sex often being very different from when first falling pregnant or soon thereafter. It is common for one or both partners to have different feelings during pregnancy some find the changing shape attractive; women or men may have no desire for sexual intimacy. Men very frequently see their partner with a belly, knowing that is their unborn child in there and can't have sex. It isn't because they don't want her anymore; often it can be treating the body as a temple sort of thing. The phrase of not wanting to "poke baby in the head" although technically not true is still repeated and the way partners may feel. Jealousy and resentment may often rear their ugly heads. If a woman breastfeeds her partner may feel left out of an important part of his baby's life. The woman at the same time may resent having to do everything for her baby at times and feel like she needs more help.

Life will never be the same as it was ever again. In amongst the strain, feelings of inadequacy and less love for each other there is still this amazing little being. The number of times I have felt physically and emotionally exhausted, then when this little baby gives the biggest smile – just because he can see you, the feelings that wash over you are truly beyond words. It can and is still the most amazing thing I have and will ever accomplish – helping to create and grow three children of my own. If I won a Nobel Prize I would still say giving life to my children was greater. Despite all the heartache and difficulties, they are my life and I wouldn’t change it for the world. It is like a lot of things in life. Having a baby means hard work and sacrifices. Two people can manage to get through it a lot easier if they can talk to each other, listen to each other and respect each other and the way they feel.

23周

3月1日-3月7日， 第23周

本周：体重7480克，65/66厘米

增长技能：

1. 3月2日起，睡120*80的大床了。彻底和wieg告别喽~~

2. 最爱啃东西，逮到什么都往嘴里放。上衣领口附近总是湿漉漉的 --被BB咂吧的，呵呵

3. 能在妈妈扶持下坐的超级稳。如果妈妈放手，可以自己小坐个10-20秒的样子。

4. 能发出更多的声音，能对妈妈的呼唤做出反应 （转头，微笑，抬头寻找妈妈）。

5. 3月4日，BB的肠胃第一次经受非母乳的考验，吃了两小婴儿勺的香蕉泥，礼拜天拉了粑粑比较干，其中还有没有消化的香蕉纤维。成绩不错哦 ：）

另：这个礼拜，妈妈的p犯了。但是妈妈会坚强的，妈妈一定要把母乳进行到底！

22周

22周
2月22日-2月28日

22日，何莹阿姨和蒙蒙哥哥来串门，BB并没有认生。加上既往几次访客BB的反应，妈妈初步推断或许真是因为奶奶爷爷的金头发，BB才觉得陌生。毕竟妈妈的朋友们，爸爸都是深色头发。这个小插曲妈妈一定要写下来，将来给宝宝看。哈哈

今天称体重，宝宝掉了100多克。整个月体重增长好像突然平缓下来，或许是湿疹的缘故，甚至有几次下跌。妈妈自责这个奶牛的工作不够称职。要加油，加油阿！



25日，爷爷奶奶来babysit,妈妈爸爸去看芭蕾喽~~~俄罗斯国家芭蕾舞团的表演真的不是盖的，晚上8点15开始，11点结束，妈妈全程兴奋状态中。盼望着可以带着BB以起来看演出的那一天啊！那个时候，BB该7，8岁了吧，妈妈爸爸可都老了，呵呵~~

26日，周末在贝多芬路的书店给宝宝买了本可爱的小读物。这样设计简洁明了，原汁原味的书，妈妈找了很久了，这么巧碰上，才12块5，不由分说，立即拿下！嗬嗬

27日， BB满5个月喽

这个月的milestone:

1. 四个月最后一天的时候，BB可以不用妈妈扶，独立坐住啦！恰好是和姥姥视频的时候发生的哦

2. 能在半躺的时候,把上半身向前抬起来---maxicozi就再也不安全喽

3. 能轻松的跟踪移动物体, 并把看到的物体双手/单手抓住,放进嘴里. 小到牙刷大小的物件哦~~

4. 有时能协调使用大拇指和剩下的手指合作的抓握方式.

5. 能发出类似 'ma'的声音. 通常使用这个发音的时候是BB想要妈妈来关注的时候.

6. 四个月底的时候开始对自己的两只手充满了极大的好奇. 经常抬起手, 聚精会神地看个5分钟, 而且还是翻来覆去的看, 小手指头一个一个伸开,再逐一合上. 简直可爱到极点了!